Empathy, Sympathy and Judgement

What do I feel? Do I Empathize or sympathize? Am I judging?

I empathize with Holden. I'm familiar with what he's feeling. I know what it's like to be on the outside, looking in. I know what it's like to lose a family member. I feel for Holden, with his loneliness and alienation. He's different, and he knows it. He doesn't know how to fit in to society, and doesn't seem to particularly want to.